I'm a girl, and I'm bi. I have a boyfriend now, but I believe I could only engage as a sub with a woman. I don't imagine it as a sexual relationship yet, but it might be because, during my 23 years of life, I've never had sex with a woman -damn boyfriend.
I don't know why exactly I'm posting, or what to ask. I guess I'd like to experience this world, give it a try for real. But i don't know how to get in touch with it, and with the right people. I understand my submission as the action of handing over the control, but I don't fancy humiliation. I'm pretty in control in my daily life, and sometimes I wish I had just someone to just give me an order, that way I could just do what I'm told and relax.
My question would be... if you out there, have a relationship like that, how did you come across it? Where did you look? How did it happen? Did you have any bad surprises?